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What Fears Do Parents Of Multilingual Children Have: MKB Telephone

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It’s time for yet another Multicultural Kid Blogs Telephone! I hope you enjoyed the last one we did on travelling– I had so much fun doing it and now we’ve decided to do another one, this one on raising bilingual and multilingual kids. 

The way it works is all participating bloggers (see all of them below) ask a question to the next blogger and then reply to a question from a blogger before them. The last blogger then asks a question to the first blogger.

Please click trough and watch all the videos, it will definitely be a very fun and educational experience!

I’m sorry for the bad quality of my video and my quiet voice. The kids haven’t started school yet which means I’m at home with them, so my time is limited, so I only had one shot at making the video. 

I’m very excited about my question which came from Creative World of Varya. She asks: “What are some biggest fears parents of multilingual children face?”

It’s a very good question, and I think parents who are raising their kids with multiple languages have two types of fears, one which has to do with the children and the other had to do with the parents themselves. 

The Children:

I think one of the things parents of multilingual kids worry about is whether speaking so many languages will confuse their children, or cause some kind of language delay. Maybe because the myth of language delay is so prevalent and people still believe it, but probably all parents have heard some variation on “you kid started speaking later because he speaks so many languages”, or even “don’t worry, of course she speaks later she’s multilingual.”

But the truth is that speaking another language is very beneficial to the kids- and adults, and if your child has a language delay (which is still possible because many monolingual children have problems as well) probably is most likely not caused by bilingualism. 

The parents:

I think that from blogs and books about multilingualism you may get the idea that you have to quit your job and focus all your time, efforts and energy on raising your children with multiple languages. You may have read that children need to hear a language 30% of their waking time to be able to speak it, you’re always reminded that you need to work hard on this or your child won’t speak the language. 

I don’t know about you, but I tried so hard to adhere to these rules and decided that I’m driving myself crazy. I mean, I’m the daughter of multilingual parents, it’s very normal for us to speak all these languages. Let’s make it normal and natural, like it should be. 

Let’s remember, we’re just like any other parents, we simply have more words to describe one thing, and with more ways to celebrate a birthday party. 

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  • Reply Raising Multilingual Kids {Multicultural Kid Blogs Vlogging Telephone} - Multicultural Kid Blogs August 20, 2015 at 6:12 am

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  • Reply Anna August 20, 2015 at 5:57 pm

    I am so glad I read that post!! wow I worry about that all the time. We just got back from vacations where I spoke only Polish with our little One. And today I was just thinking: Wow, it’s so bad I am not talking in French anymore…
    I think it’s time we find another french family to speak with us 😉

    • Reply Olga Mecking August 22, 2015 at 12:13 pm

      Hi Anna, thank you so much for your kind comment. Yes it seems parents of multilingual children worry a lot as well. I ope you’ll find another French family to meet up with! Good luck!

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  • Reply Christine September 9, 2015 at 6:12 am

    I live in the US and speak to my 2.5 year old daughter in my native tongue, Shona, and my husband only can speak English so that’s what he speaks with her. 2 months ago we enrolled her in a language academy where she’ll learn 2 more, French and Spanish. Most of the time I feel like I have to explain to people over and over that she understands English, they ask her questions and she doesn’t verbalize the way they expect for a child whose past 2. I know her quiet and short words but it can get annoying when people just look at you with a funny eye even though I know they don’t get it.

  • Reply Silja Nathe October 18, 2015 at 10:58 am

    My fear was that I am mentally ill.
    But now the CCHR helps me to fight psychiatry.
    http://Www.cchr.org is the best discovery ti overcome my fear and get more confident about my SKILLS!

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